When is the next member activity?
Check the members' calendar (exclusive access for members)! Each scheduled Pajas entre Colegas event is added to the online calendar as soon as it is confirmed.
Events are usually on Friday afternoons and Sundays at noon, but dates and times are subject to change.
Where are the events held?
Here is information on where to find and how to get to our SeDe in Argüelles, Madrid.
Is the club legal?
Yes, all PeC events are legal. We are a non-profit association registered in the national registry. Our events are private functions of a private club, involving consensual acts between adults. We have consulted with the police and lawyers to ensure that the club's activities fully comply with the laws of Spain. We strictly monitor and do not allow alcohol, drugs, or minors at our events.
What do you mean when you say that PeCs do not discriminate?
Our commitment to inclusion and diversity is one of the key factors that makes our club work. Aside from the requirement that you be an adult man (over 18 years old), we do not discriminate against anyone based on any subjective trait. We do not evaluate potential members based on age, race, ethnicity, body type, fitness level, sexual orientation, or "perceived" sexual orientation.
Why are Pajas events only for men?
This group has never intended to satisfy all sexual desires; our focus is specific: to create a space where men can openly masturbate with other men. Two-thirds of our members identify as gay, while the remaining third is bisexual or heterosexual. For many gay men, the presence of women would absolutely exclude the possibility of having sexual relations.
That said, we support sexual positivity for all.
I love the events, but they never seem to fit my schedule. Can you schedule an event at a different time?
We hear you. We would also love to have the ability to have a club 24/7. Unfortunately, the cost would be astronomical and the size of the groups would never reach critical mass.
We hope you can find time to join us at one of our events, which we organize three times a month, but if you can’t, a good option is to organize your own event. Anyone can! When planning a private Club event, think of it like any social event you would host at your home. Plan ahead, prepare the space for your guests, and give them time to plan their attendance.
You can even announce it to PeC members through our online networks or informally at one of our events. While private events are subject to the choices of their hosts, and while you can organize any event in your home that you wish, any event announced through TdM channels (online or at one of our events) must comply with the spirit of the Code of Conduct.
I feel excited but nervous about attending my first event. Can I just sit on the sidelines and watch? Do I have to participate?
The Code of Conduct defines Minimum Participation as undressing to your underwear. You should also be ready to be among other men who are masturbating and who may invite you to join them. Beyond that, you are in charge of your own level of participation. You do not have to touch anyone or let anyone touch you, although mutual contact within the limits of the Code of Conduct is welcome, common, and encouraged. Your body belongs only to you, and we absolutely honor and celebrate that.
Regarding nerves, we accept that as a natural feeling for newcomers (though not everyone is!). We encourage you, when you are ready, to come and give it a try. Spend more than a few minutes in the space and we bet the nerves will fade away.
What about STIs? Is it safe to masturbate with other guys?
There are two things safer than group PeC: solo masturbation and not having any sex. In the 40 years since the initial diagnosis of HIV, mutual masturbation has been responsible for zero cases of HIV infection. There is also no evidence that it is a source of transmission for any other STIs, with the possible exception of herpes simplex. According to our Code of Conduct, PeC members prevent semen from spilling on or near any bodily openings.
More generally, as a sex-positive organization, we encourage all members to remember that research on HIV and STIs is constantly evolving and what you knew to be true a few years ago may no longer be accurate. We hope our members make informed and thoughtful decisions about their own health and harm reduction strategies, particularly regarding their sexual activities outside of the Jacks environment. To that end, we provide resources and literature at all our events on STIs, testing, and harm reduction.
If I enjoy masturbating with other guys, does that mean I’m gay?
About a third of Jacks members identify as something other than "gay," so we assume our answer should be a "no" that is quite definitive.
Sexual orientation is a complex issue, and the social identities that accompany it are even more complex. Our perspective is that the answer to this question is much more about how you see yourself than any objective definition of sexuality; you are what you believe you are, you can identify however you want, and you can arrive at any terms with your sexuality that make sense to you.
Given the right circumstances, when presented with a safe environment to explore, many heterosexual men can fully enjoy masturbation with other men. You do not need to (and in most cases cannot) alter your fundamental sexual orientation. It is also worth understanding that the vast majority of people exist on a continuum of sexual orientation between completely gay and completely heterosexual. Most of us are capable, given the right circumstances, of enjoying a sexual experience beyond our natural predisposition.
And if you are, what’s the problem?
How many members are at each event?
This varies, but we currently average 15 attendees at each event. Our play space can easily handle more than 30 guys. Our largest event to date attracted 50 members, which is our maximum capacity.
What is the age range of the guys at the events?
Because we verify the age of each of our members based on legal identifications, we know this with some accuracy. The ages of our members range from 18 to 88 years. About a third of our members are in their 20s and 30s, and another third are in their 40s and 50s. The average age of PeC members is around 32 years.
Each event is different regarding the age and energy of the attendees, but virtually all our meetings include men in their twenties, thirties, forties, and fifties. Members in their sixties or older often show up. If a guy is really interested in masturbating with several men in a social and informal setting, he will find like-minded guys at Pajas entre Colegas, and many will be around his age.
Where can I store my things during the events?
Our venue provides lockers or cubbies for members to store their personal belongings during PeC events. We ask members to provide their own locks, but we also have locks available for loan.
In case attendance exceeds our supply of lockers, we will offer supervised coat check to complement the available storage.
The Tdm group and/or Pajas entre Colegas is not responsible for personal items left in lockers after the event. It is important that each member ensures they empty their locker and check that they have all their belongings before leaving the premises.
What if I don’t want to play with older guys, or younger guys, or “whatever...”?
You are not obligated to touch or be touched by anyone. You can decide who, if anyone, is your play partner.
That said, we encourage participants to use Jacks events as an opportunity to confront age biases. There are extraordinarily attractive and erotic men of all ages there, and on more than one occasion, members have expressed surprise at being 'interested' in someone (or several people) they initially did not think they would be. But, if at the end of the day, the friendly, erotic, and brotherly energy of a multigenerational group does not excite you, then our events are probably not for you.
I’m curious, but I’m not ready to commit to membership yet. Can I try attending an event before joining?
No. Pajas entre Colegas is a private club and all club events and activities are restricted to active members only.
Fortunately, club membership is affordable, available to all qualifying adult men, and can be purchased at the registration desk at any PeC event. However, we offer a "I Want to Try" trial membership option, which is a great way for men visiting from out of town, or for those who are curious but not ready to commit. This subscription makes you a club member for a single day. Therefore, you would technically be participating as a member, although you automatically cease to be one at the end of that day.
I value my privacy and want to attend discreetly. Can I participate anonymously?
PeC understands that each member's privacy is very important. We want every man to feel completely safe at our events and keeping personal information strictly confidential is part of our commitment. While you can attend confidentially, we cannot legally allow anonymity.
As a private club, the law requires us to verify and maintain a record of certain personal information from each member. At the time of registration, each individual must provide their legal name, address, and date of birth, all verified by government-issued identification. There are no exceptions.
Our policy is to never disclose any member's personal information unless required by a subpoena or public health investigation; and no club member has ever been exposed or "outed" in the life of our club.
Why do I have to identify myself upon entry?
The property community has a private access control service for the building. It is legal and they are fully within their rights.
I’m never going to Madrid. How can I find a club like yours near me?
There are masturbation clubs in some places around the world, mainly in large cities in North America. All of them are run by a single person or a very small group of people who maintain their clubs as a labor of love and a public service. PeC has "franchises" or "branches," and for the vast majority of men in the world, there simply is not a club they can easily access.
We will soon open more SeDes across Spain.
It remains true that there are very few organized and active masturbation clubs today. If you can access one, you should not miss the opportunity.
What is the policy on transgender people?
PeC welcomes anyone who identifies as a man, regardless of their physicality. 100% of PeC members are cisgender men.
It is important to emphasize that all PeC members, including any man with a vagina, must respect the Code of Conduct, including the rules governing consent, mutual respect, and no penetration.
We absolutely maintain our identification as a club for men. What we do not do is define what constitutes a man. We do not allow any person identified as a woman to enroll or participate in Pajas entre Colegas.
Are there showers at the venue?
No showers. We’re sorry. We are raising funds to be able to install them at our SeDe in Madrid. We provide wet wipes throughout the play space along with paper towels and other personal hygiene items.
Can I use my mobile phone at the meetings?
NO, mobile phones are stored with personal belongings, wallet, keys.. in the security lockers for valuable items. In the event that there are not enough, they will be stored in tamper-proof bags and kept under lock.
Do you take photos or videos of the meetings?
NO, the privacy of each member is very important. Your body belongs only to you, and we absolutely honor and celebrate that.
"I don't think my penis is big enough"
At our meetings, there are all shapes and sizes, and that includes penises! The size of the penis (or body image) is not what matters here: the sensual and friendly interaction is the key to a successful session.
"I might meet someone."
If you see someone at our meeting that you wish you hadn’t seen, then he probably feels the same way. Say "Hello" and then start enjoying with others; after all, you are both there for the same reason.
"I might get an erection all the time."
Well, there’s certainly no need to be embarrassed about that; in fact, we encourage you to carry your virility with pride! An enthusiastic member is a great help to others.
"Why do I have to give my name, address, and date of birth? Can't I go anonymously?"
No, as a private club, the law requires us to verify and maintain a record of certain personal information from each member. There are no exceptions. While you can attend confidentially, we cannot legally allow anonymity.
We will never disclose any member's personal information unless required by a subpoena or public health investigation; and no club member has ever been exposed or outed in the life of our club.
"I don't feel comfortable being completely naked all the time."
Meetings always provide a warm, friendly, and sensual experience. It is a dimly lit environment where all participants are on equal footing. Using oil stains clothing if you are wearing it.
"I really want to go, but I feel too embarrassed."
It wouldn’t be fun if you went when you really didn’t feel ready for it. We recommend that you wait a while until you overcome your shyness and can participate in the excitement without inhibiting yourself too much. With everyone taking off their clothes, it’s very hard not to feel uninhibited. We are all interested in the same thing.
"Do I have to start masturbating as soon as I get undressed?"
Meetings start promptly! Men drop their towels and erections appear immediately!
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