1) HANDS ONLY

Like all true masturbation clubs, sexual activity is strictly limited to masturbation and mutual masturbation. Oral and anal sex are NOT allowed at ANY PeC event. Nothing goes inside of anyone.

2) ALLOWED PLAY (by mutual consent)

• Self-masturbation and consensual mutual masturbation
• Erotic and friendly touching.
• Showing and watching (without touching)
• Parallel masturbation from penis to penis ("C2C")
• Frottage (rubbing bodies together)
• Oral contact only above the waist (kissing, nibbling on nipples, etc.)

3) PROHIBITED PLAY

• No insertion (nothing goes inside of anyone)
• No anal contact (do not even touch any anus, including your own)
• No oral contact below the waist (no lips below the hips)
• If you do not have consent, you cannot touch another member.

4) NUDITY

The minimum participation is to undress to a single piece of underwear, either a thong or a t-shirt. Hats and fetish clothing and gear are always allowed, and some themes will invite specific attire. Always wear footwear and never wear anything that could tear or cut the skin.

 

5) EJACULATION

• Give a verbal warning before ejaculating. Don't just breathe heavily. Say it out loud with words.
• Ejaculate on yourself, the floor, or any surface covered with a tarp.
• Explicit mutual consent is required before ejaculating on others.
• Always clean up semen from the floor properly.
• Never allow semen on anyone's face or anus.
• Avoid aggressive or prolonged urethral play.
• Ingestion of semen is not allowed.

6) EXPLICIT CONSENT AND MUTUAL RESPECT

Consent is required before touching another member's penis. This also applies to kissing. Remember: each person owns their body. You own your body just like any other member you encounter in the play space. Always ask before touching someone who has not given consent. Be prepared to say “no” and always take a “no” for an answer. Never push the issue. We treat each other with mutual respect and human dignity, like brothers.

7) DISCRETION AND ANONYMITY

Never, at any time, reveal the identity of any member to anyone, whether inside or outside the club. Ever. What you do here, who you see here, stays here. Violating the identity of any member is grounds for termination of membership.

8) ILLNESS

Do not attend a PeC event if you have or suspect you may have an illness that could infect other members during the course of an event. This includes common colds and flu, herpes outbreaks, and staph infections. HIV is not considered transmissible in the context of club activities. HIV-positive men can join the club and participate in events according to our rules, as there is no evidence of virus transmission through mutual masturbation.

Monitor your own health and pay attention to any symptoms you may have that could indicate COVID or monkeypox. For PeC, this is super important because the illness spreads while the person has symptoms. That is different from COVID which can spread while someone has no symptoms.

The simplest measure is to simply ask yourself if you feel perfectly healthy. If you have no symptoms of infection (which may include sore throat, swollen lymph nodes, fatigue, unusual muscle aches, and any kind of rash, to name a few), you are unlikely to spread monkeypox.

9) NO ALCOHOL OR DRUGS

Never bring recreational drugs or alcohol of any kind to PeC events, and do not arrive at events intoxicated. Intoxicated members will not be admitted or may be expelled from events. Problematic behavior will result in termination of membership. All group masturbation events organized by Hands Between Colleagues are designated as alcohol and drug-free. No "poppers" allowed.

10) PERSONAL HYGIENE

Your body and hands must be clean when attending a PeC event, with teeth brushed and nails short and smooth. Take care of bad breath and excessive body odor before entering the play space. The club provides mouthwash and hand soap at all events, as well as antibacterial wipes. Start each event with a trip to the bathroom to wash your hands and use mouthwash, whether you think you need it or not. Do not wear any fragrance at PeC events.

11) TALKING

Excessive chatting during events is discouraged. Quiet conversations are fine, and hot conversations are welcome at any volume. “Talking” is another matter. Be friendly and sociable, but do not distract others in the play space. If you are asked to lower your voice, do so.

You are encouraged to talk to other members about sexual games that are not allowed at PeC events. For example, while oral and anal sex is never allowed in the club, you can talk about it during the event as long as your peers don’t mind. Be yourself.

12) SILICONE BRACELETS

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Silicone bracelets are offered at all events as an option for any member to wear if they wish. A Yellow wristband means “do not touch my penis.” A White wristband means "you can cum on me" and A GREEN wristband means “anyone can touch my penis, ask first.” No band means ask (see rule 6). This consent shortcut must be respected 100% by every member at all times during each PeC event. Silicone bands are available at all events and can be found at the central lubrication station table.

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