Written by The boys can also innovate to enjoy more.
From now on, if you want to enjoy, you will have to forget about rushing.
Ways for boys to enjoy: caresses and cuddles, without rushing, the penis, and goodbye to routine.
Boys are much freer than girls in the field of masturbation. Although it seems that they are free from all kinds of negative thoughts regarding these practices, that is not the case; they also worry about this type of experience and wonder how much is normal and if it will affect their future sexual performance.
1. Advantages.
Masturbation is a practice that helps you get to know yourself better, keeps the organ functioning, clears the mind, and allows you to focus on other things; therefore, it is not about counting how many times you do it but the satisfaction that follows.
Compulsive masturbation as a problem has nothing to do with how many times it is done, but with the anxiety it causes. Therefore, although initially associated with adolescents, it should not be so, as it is recommended in all cases, even for married people because it helps regulate relationships when partners do not have the same level of desire, since specialists always advise adjusting downwards. All the other health-related advantages: such as boosting immunity, lowering cholesterol, and aiding stress metabolism are already well known.
You need to dedicate an hour and a reserved place without surprises; disconnect the phone.
2. How to prepare.
I know that boys do it anywhere and generally in a hurry, but I want to suggest doing it differently and teach your penis other ways to reach orgasm.You can continue doing it as you have been, but what I propose is that once a day or a week (as you prefer), you let yourself be advised and do it differently.
Find some time for yourself; it doesn't count between work and work or between study and study or in front of the computer, etc. You need to dedicate an hour and a reserved place without surprises, disconnect the phone, and focus on your body.
To start, a shower is good, and if you prefer, a relaxing and calm bath with music (no rock or chill out). Prepare a refreshing drink or a cool wine. Find a pleasant body cream, and if you have a large mirror handy, you will also need it.
3. Know your body.
Now you are going to explore your body, especially your genitals. I imagine you have seen them thousands of times, but let's name what you see. The penis is a tube formed by two halves that are never exactly the same, which causes most of them to have a slight deviation in any of the four directions: up, down, to the right, or to the left. The penis has three parts: two roots embedded in the abdominal muscles, the shaft covered with thick, very elastic skin through which veins can be seen, and the glans, which is covered by thin, delicate, and very sensitive skin. At the junction of both parts, the shaft and the glans, a thick skin forms, the foreskin, which covers and protects the glans.
The penis of an adult in a flaccid state measures about 7 cm in length and about 9 cm in circumference; in an erect state, these measurements can double or triple. Full erection is achieved when the shaft of the penis reaches an angle of 90º or more with respect to the abdomen and has enough rigidity to allow penetration.
4. Nipples, perineum, and anus.
But your geography of pleasure is not just the penis; move your hand up to your chest and touch your nipples; they are small nipples that seem useless, yet they do not secrete milk because you do not have enough prolactin, the hormone that makes female mammals lactate; some men can do it, and their sensitivity is so intense that it can lead you to orgasm with just a touch.
The perineum is a muscular pad that connects the scrotum and the anus; it is very sensitive and a very pleasurable area along with the scrotum and the anus, but in the minds of many men floats the ghost of homosexuality, and thinking that they can have an erotic response in those areas makes them question their sexual orientation. This is radically false, sexual orientation is not in the skin but in the brain; it has nothing to do with sexual tastes but with the people to whom those tastes are directed.
You are not gay because you feel pleasure in the perineum or anus; you are when you imagine that the hand caressing you is that of a man.
5. Caresses all over the skin.
Caressing is not easy; we can make a caress so soft that it bothers or so strong that instead of pleasure, you find pain. Education in general proposes that 
men are educated in hardness, inhibiting their painful sensations and therefore their pleasurable ones as well.
men are educated in hardness, inhibiting their painful sensations and therefore their pleasurable ones as well.I propose a walk through your body to awaken those sensations that have been dormant in your skin since childhood.
All skin is full of nerve endings susceptible to transforming into sexual sensations, but for this to happen, intentions are necessary; that is, you must give yourself permission to feel, without thinking that "this self-caressing is a waste of time, and if we are talking about masturbation, shaking the penis for a few minutes is enough, and why would you bother to run your hand over any other part."
Look at yourself; do not be ashamed of your own image; observe how your penis reacts to the caresses.
It is about developing eroticism, which is to sex what cooking is to the kitchen. Cooking is the result of many years of culture and care in food preparation. Eroticism must be the result of exploring our sensations and seeking pleasure wherever it may be.
And sexual pleasure is in all the skin; erogenous zones are whatever you want them to be.
6. The mirror.
Look at yourself; do not be ashamed of your own image; observe how your penis reacts to the caresses you are giving yourself; take the opportunity to apply cream and do not 
limit yourself to looking at your penis; look at the rest of your body, everything is an object of pleasure and deserves your attention and stimulation. You can close your eyes and imagine where your hand is going, and you can also imagine which hand you prefer to caress you; fantasy is important. If you need it, look for your favorite porn, or dig into your memory for situations that made you happy in the past and that you would like to repeat. If you find it hard to find stimulating images, a good exercise is to read some erotic stories or look at some stimulating images.
limit yourself to looking at your penis; look at the rest of your body, everything is an object of pleasure and deserves your attention and stimulation. You can close your eyes and imagine where your hand is going, and you can also imagine which hand you prefer to caress you; fantasy is important. If you need it, look for your favorite porn, or dig into your memory for situations that made you happy in the past and that you would like to repeat. If you find it hard to find stimulating images, a good exercise is to read some erotic stories or look at some stimulating images.Anything is good to feed that inner garden where your sexual desires are found.
7. Positions.
You might prefer to sit on your sofa or lie on your bed; don't hold back; anything that brings your fantasy to life is good.
Want a suggestion? Find a hand mirror, prepare some cushions for comfort, and caress yourself while observing your face when you feel that desire is hidden in some areas of your skin.
Don't be surprised; it's like this; the first pleasurable experiences are associated with your earliest childhood when your mother bathed you and lovingly caressed your entire skin; then we learned the registers of pleasure, and in adolescence, all we do is remember. If you close your eyes, you can almost feel those pleasant sensations: the warm water, the soap, and a hand caressing you.
8. Rhythms.
Also explore different rhythms. I know that when you masturbate, you don't pay attention to these things; you put it on autopilot and let yourself go, which is fine, but now you are exploring, and you may have learned a speed and a breathing rhythm that are not the 
right ones to enjoy to the fullest. I want you to imitate the rhythm of your hand and your breathing and change them as you feel like it; don't worry if you lose your erection; your penis doesn't understand tricks and gets scared easily, but it will soon regain confidence. Use music you like as a base and keep the rhythm with your hand, accompany it with your movements; your whole body has to participate. Forget about the rigidity of your back and glutes; relax and let yourself be carried away by the rhythm of the music.
Everything takes its time. Take it easy. There is no rush. No one expects you to break your own record. Take your time in each place and make the most of it.
What you learn about yourself will help you teach your partner or give them more pleasure.
9. The back and ears.
Now you are going to run your hand all over your body, with your eyes closed; do not touch the penis, only with your fantasy and your caresses do you have to achieve 
an erection; seek in your skin those memories that are there and are so pleasurable. Start with your hair; relax and caress it against the grain, but it is also very exciting to feel the scratch of a beard, the ears, the neck, the eyelashes, the lips; don't leave any corner untouched. The hands and feet. The legs, the backs of the knees, and the inner thigh area. Some places may not tell you anything, but others will awaken sensations you didn't know were there. Remember that memories are in the skin. If there are places on your skin that excite you especially, stay there as long as you like and don't move on.
an erection; seek in your skin those memories that are there and are so pleasurable. Start with your hair; relax and caress it against the grain, but it is also very exciting to feel the scratch of a beard, the ears, the neck, the eyelashes, the lips; don't leave any corner untouched. The hands and feet. The legs, the backs of the knees, and the inner thigh area. Some places may not tell you anything, but others will awaken sensations you didn't know were there. Remember that memories are in the skin. If there are places on your skin that excite you especially, stay there as long as you like and don't move on.Prostitutes in Japan have a service that consists of the rhythmic sucking of the big toe, and this leads to orgasm.
10. The buttocks and legs.
These two areas are especially pleasurable; it is not easy to caress the buttocks, but it is a very pleasant caress; if you lie face down, 
knead these muscles firmly as if you want to pull a handful off, without hurting yourself; go down the thigh and reach the backs of the knees; there the caress should turn into a slow and gentle scratch, to go down the legs; change position and sit to comfortably run both hands over your calves; if you knead them, you will feel all the well-being it provides; apply plenty of cream or oil to your hands and direct the caresses down towards the ankle; you can take the leg between your hands and squeeze it as if it were playdough, but with rhythm, you will see the surprise. Reach the foot and take it with both hands and try to move the bones.
knead these muscles firmly as if you want to pull a handful off, without hurting yourself; go down the thigh and reach the backs of the knees; there the caress should turn into a slow and gentle scratch, to go down the legs; change position and sit to comfortably run both hands over your calves; if you knead them, you will feel all the well-being it provides; apply plenty of cream or oil to your hands and direct the caresses down towards the ankle; you can take the leg between your hands and squeeze it as if it were playdough, but with rhythm, you will see the surprise. Reach the foot and take it with both hands and try to move the bones.To be continued...
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